Buffalo Old Home Week Draws George Thomas Apfel home after 44 years away

I have my airline tickets booked and hotel reserved… I will be there for the celebration. I didn’t have a choice as I was only 10 when my family decided to leave in 1963 to the land of promise here in the desert. But hey, we were moving to Vegas, I was excited! The excitement wore off as I became homesick and missed Buffalo not long after we arrived.
I was just back in Buffalo in February for my first look at the city as an adult, let me share a unique perspective — a comparison of Buffalo 1963 to 2007. One thing about being homesick is you long for the places and people you had grown up with, the history of the region, the incredible architecture, the fabulous Olmsted Parks, the friendliness of the people. When I was 8 years old my favorite place to spend a Sunday was the Historical Building, they showed movies in the theatre every week. I was fascinated by the exhibits and never tired of looking at them. I lived so close to the zoo I could hear the lions roar when it was feeding time, so there were many visits there. I would hop on the Colvin bus and ride all the way to Shelton Square and then back again, if I kept a low profile in the back the driver wouldn’t ask for another fare. I would just stare at those buildings downtown… you see my father was an engineer and explained things to me, told me how they worked. He would tell stories of when he worked on building the Peace Bridge and Grand Island Bridge, and when he worked at the water intake in the Niagara River. So I developed an appreciation for not only the form but the function of these things.
Fast forward 44 years, and I finally get to see my hometown as an adult. My point of reference were the images of Buffalo in 1963: all the downtown buildings were an ashen grey from years of industrial pollution and coal-fired furnaces. I walked through downtown in 2007 and everything looks 'cleaner' than I remember - there were colors showing in those buildings I never saw before. I went through the Cold Springs neighborhood, the house where I was born at Ellicott & Best is no longer there but the area is showing renewed life. I expected rundown, boarded up buildings but instead saw classic architecture revitalized. There was no trash, the streets weren’t all filled with pot holes as I remember… and sorry folks, I didn’t see any panhandlers. Franklin Park blew me away, when I lived here you just didn’t even go to this area. The Elmwood strip… well, I only remember this as a through street to get from downtown to North Buffalo.
On to North Buffalo where I lived from 1957-1963 and no, it didn’t look the same… it looked better. I guess 44 years of looking at tract homes in the desert has given me an appreciation for it. I saw the house my grandfather built and mother grew up in, it and the neighborhood just blew me away, it looked so great. Homes with character, well-maintained… tree-canopied streets, even after the carnage of Dutch Elm disease and the big storm in October. Homer Avenue and North Park was awesome, I walked down my old street and saw houses still inhabited by the people who were there in 1963… the people we sold our house to still live there. The trees were gone… a lot of trees are gone, but new ones are maturing in their place.
One of the first things I do will be to plant a tree. Hertel Avenue had more life and vitality than I remember. The sign in front of St. Margaret’s church — where my parents and sister where married and I attended third grade — seemed so appropriate: “Come Back to Me With All Your Heart”
The Buffalo people is what impressed me the most… the warm welcome I received made me feel like I belong here, for the first time in 44 years I truly felt like I was “home.” I heard the complaints, I was told about the crime, the depressed economy, the massive amounts of people who have left. I’ve heard that before, when my father was laid off when Bell Aircraft shut down he was a bitter man after that. Downtown did look empty, with a lot of shovel-ready parcels down there; the east side has a long way to go, there’s a lot of vacant houses and lots. The 33 has carved a gaping swath through a beautiful area—those old houses sure look sad facing the highway. It’s not going to be easy and it won’t happen overnight. But I’m a glass-half-full kind of guy, being optimistic and focusing my energies on the positive has made me successful in my field.
It seems appropriate Buffalo Old Home Week kicks off on the same day I left—July 1. I don’t know how many people the event has brought back, or will bring back. But I can tell you one Buffalo native is coming home for good… and others are going to follow. Five more years of drought in the west is going to force the issue, and I’m going to be in a place that has plenty of water. -George Thomas Apfel

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DannyBoy
Do we have proof that "is" a true story and that he "Is" moving back? or are we jumping to conclusion from one blog? Really, if you think about it===Buffalo now compared to Buffalo in 1963...I would want it too look as it did in '63---It had a "Vibe" then, more activity, busier streets, SAFER Streets, More going on, DEPARTMENT STORES, THEATRES GALORE, and it wasn't just in downtown...So why would anyone say , Downtown looks better now than it did then???? Must not be a true story then. Downtown now is a GHOST TOWN compared to how it was in the 60's.
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RPreskop
DannyBoy Downtown might have been much more prosperous and vibrant in 1963, but at the same token urban decline was already setting in and the regions first suburban shopping mall ( Boulevard Mall ) was already open and attracting local shoppers out of downtown. Then in 1967, urban racial violence broke out on the nearby east side causing even more people to avoid downtown as much as possible. Plus in both the 1960s and 1970s, much of downtown was increasingly decrepit, dirty, grimy and increasingly unsafe. Add in the planning disasters of the I-190, low income housing developments, the Main Place Mall and office tower, the Shoreline Apartments on Niagara Street, the convention center, numerous asphalt parking lots, and later in the early 80s the pedestrian mall and transit line on Main Street, downtown already had sharp spikes driven into its weakened, impoverished heart. It was not all so rosy in the early 60s because downtown was already dying.
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georgethomasapfel
It is a true story, and I am moving back. I do get that reaction, especially when I told people I was visiting in the middle of the winter. I’m giving a different perspective and remember I said it looked better than I remember it, a perspective tainted by being away for so long and missing the things I had taken for granted. I see positive things that have been done but realize there’s a great deal which still has to be done to improve the quality of life. I just don’t dwell on the negative, and the purpose of Old Home Week is to point out the other side of the story Buffalo Bashers portray. The organizers of Buffalo Old Home Week prove there are people here willing to actually do something to make it a better place.
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Digginit
George - Welcome Back!!
Buffalo is a great place to live, eat and play! I love raising my children here, I love the schools (we have some fantastic, top notch colleges here folks, so please don't bash me about this one), the restaurants (the best in the country!), the arts (top notch!), the parks (historic and beautiful!), the low price of houses, the people, the small businesses, the friendliness of the residents, knowing almost every neighbor on my street, the fact that we can get 3 feet of snow and everyone goes to Wilson Farms to buy beer and maybe milk (might as well have fun while stuck inside, right??), I love that shoveling can be fun because you can talk to your neighbors while doing it, I love every season Buffalo has (yes, Including winter!) and everything else about Buffalo...apparently you do as well.
Glad to have you come "Home" after so long! You will love every minute!
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DannyBoy
Well, Digginit, when your kids grow up THEY WILL MOVE like everyone else. Enjoy them here while it last.
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kelly
DannyBoy, I think the massive numbers of people on this site alone in their 20s an 30s who stuck around after college prove you really have no business sounding so sure of yourself there. (shoot, my family moved... and here I am! And my sister's going to come back as soon as her fiancee is out of grad school!)
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Nan-C
George, Welcome home! We made the same decision you are making and living here in Buffalo has been one of the best experiences of our lives. You will make lots of new friends here and will be warmly welcomed. Please try to ignore the negative naysayers. It seems that some of them haven't really experienced the rest of the world and therefore, don't even know how good we have it here. I mostly just feel sorry for them and their sour outlooks. We'll look for you during Old Home Week! Nan-C
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IMADIVA
DannyBoy....since you are so familiar with the 60's...there was a popular phrase then..."if you aren't part of the solution, you are part of the problem". Seems to me that you fit the latter and with the other 'naysayers' in the problem category, you continue to diminish all the good things that are happening in Buffalo. I'm sorry that you are so unhappy here and that your vision is so bleak.
Welcme home George! george!
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LoveItHere
Hey Danny, I was born here, raised here, went to school here, and now found a great job here and I'm only 23....What gives, I thought everyone moves away?? I guess the majority of my friends who stayed are wrong as well??
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allthingsbuffalo
i guess the 40,000 people who have left the city since 2000 didn't notice the pretty colors of the buildings downtown.
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iAMbuffalo
When I was a kid we would rive over to the river outlook by Riverside Park and if I acted up my mother used to say she would take me over to Bird Island and leave me there. I think this is an excellent spot for DannyBot and allthingsbuffalo. No, wait, wa-a-a-a-a-ay too close. Where was "Escape from NY" filmed?
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Ross
Downtown???? Empty storefronts, a Mall with nothing at all, surface lots, broken parking meters (or missing), graffiti walls, run-down buildings, a few new residence BUT NO PLACE TO SHOP!!! Yeah, enjoy your downtown..Now a group is trying to stop the waterfront Development....No wonder NOTHING EVER gets done here, and it definitely shows in the quiet streets you have to offer.
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allthingsbuffalo
im sorry iAMbuffalo...i'll meet up with your mom at bird island later because im actually actively involved and committed to downtown buffalo
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Marti
George -- Thank you for taking the time to tell your story. We at Buffalo Old Home Week had heard that a radio personality was on his way home, but we never really connected with you directly. You epitomize the type of person we hope to attract to Buffalo -- in addition to having a true appreciation for a real city (I lived out west for a long time, too...pretty, but no roots, no community), you're a "glass-half-full" kind of guy, as you say. Buffalo deserves your optimism -- you are arriving at fabulous time in this fair city, and I don't just mean July 1-8 when we'll celebrate All That Is Great About Buffalo. There IS a renaissance underway, and you are contributing to the momentum by coming home and doing so publically. Your energy, enthusiasm, experience and expertise are all very wecome additions to our ever more vibrant community. Welcome Home!
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RPreskop
DannyBoy, Not all young adults in their 20s and 30s are going to move out of Buffalo and WNY. Get off your negative bullshit because despite its serious problems, Buffalo is still a good city to live in for all age groups. Not all young people like the sunbelt south. Furthermore cities like Atlanta, Charlotte, Tampa, and Austin are not all what they are cracked up to be. Trust me, I lived in Austin, Texas for nine solid years and it for the most part sucked big time. Austin is definately one of the most grossly overrated cities in the USA. I will gladly take Buffalo over Austin because we are a far superior city to overrated Austin, Texas.
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Andrew
There is a major difference between 1963 and 2007. In 1963 we were on a downward swing with no relief on the horizon. Now in 2007 we are on an upward swing with nothing in sight to slow it down.
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Ross
Downtown is still very BORING. What are people expected to do down there during the day time???? Walk past EMPTY Storefronts and parking lots, get harrased by bums, get BORED???? The few restaurants there are pricey and the deli's close before 3pm....What gives?
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georgethomasapfel
Marti- You are most welcome, and thank you and everyone else in return for the warm welcome. I do have a true appreciation for a real city; living in Las Vegas all these years has made me truly recognize an area with a sense of community and that pays homage to its roots. Buffalo is the genuine article. I’m just carrying on a family tradition—my ancestors arrived and settled here to build the Erie Canal, and subsequent generations of engineers and builders took part at creating this region. They all succeeded by not giving up in the face of adversity—that’s the basis on which this entire nation is founded. I’m bringing that back home to help keep the momentum going in building a more vibrant community.
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Ross
Gawd, you people are so dumb.....Buffalo is DEAD! People are LEAVING! Downtown SUCKS!
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nick
It's nice to see George and others returning, if only some people who have lived in other places could be brought into the fold and be able to affect change on the city. Being away you get a better sense of things going on in the city. Unlike those who have moved to sunbelt cities and greener pastures, I am in Philly, not a real hot bed for the young elite, but I do take public transportation, shop in Center City and go to meetings where community members have a say in development!
Hopefully the experiences of those returning to buffalo will change the city from its parochial and stuck in the mud ways.
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Genghis
This article is really amusing. "it looked so great. Homes with character, well-maintained… tree-canopied streets, even after the carnage of Dutch Elm disease and the big storm in October." Gimme a break, the trees look like a hurricane went through and there are still branches littering the ground six months later. Another great one: "Downtown did look empty, with a lot of shovel-ready parcels down there."
I think this article is a shovel-ready parcel. I'm not saying there aren't good things happening here in Buffalo, but if you write something this unrealistically optomistic, people are just going to ignore it as propaganda.
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Charger
I don't mean to sound patronizing, but I really feel sorry for Ross, Genghis, etc. It must really suck to get up everyday hating the place you live so much that when someone says something nice about it you have to go off on a rant about how wrong they are.
George, welcome back. As Nick says, it will be great to have you here to share your observations on the the other communities in which you've lived.
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lulu
I love that George wants to plant a tree when he arrives. Perhaps BOHW organizers can work it into their activities to have all guests plant trees while here, after all, we are hoping they will lay down roots here, so why not have them literally lay down roots here?
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georgethomasapfel
Plant a few trees and I'm bringing my tools and will be volunteering at the Central Terminal and Buffalo ReUse and others. I'm not only a radio geek but a carpenter, plumber, hvac, and computer guy. So I can build you a nice place and wire you for the 21st century. It's going to feel very rewarding to give something back to my home. I'm a native, we giving kind of people. And lulu, thanks for the apprectiation, you find a lot of that in the City of Good Neighbors.
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