Growing Up City #4: Public School

Growing Up City #4: Public School

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The 500 pound gorilla in the room keeping company with most family's decision weather to live in the city or not is the question of schools. City schools are burdened with massive legacy costs from aging infrastructure, dwindling tax base, out of control bureaucracy, and the special problems inherent with dysfunctional poverty stricken neighborhoods, and then there is the issue of race. As I noted in the third installation of this series my family bucked the trend during the 1970's and moved into the city. I attended public school for 7th and 8th grade but the most valuable part of my education came from the city itself.

We moved to the Elmwood Village at a time when this part of the city was set to reinvent itself as the premiere city neighborhood but was still quite rough around the edges. Its continued success was far from certain. The neighborhood was mostly white, its residents relatively well off financially but, (as it is now) was bordered by very poor neighborhoods on 2 sides.

This part of the city has such massive contrasts that you can literally walk 10 minutes from Tudor Place, one of WNY's most exclusive streets, to abject poverty east of Main Street. These are the kinds of contrasts that make many people uncomfortable. Contrast and diversity is both the strength and weakness of the city. The tensions and clashes inherent with close proximity of people with different world experience can be the source of many problems as well as the genesis of tremendous creativity. I can not comprehend my life today without having had direct exposure to this diversity, both good and bad.

I am ashamed to say that as a very young child I was scared to be touched by a black person. My parents were not overtly racist. I was not taught to hate. It is just that most of the images I received with an African American face came through nightly news footage of riots, crime, and burning neighborhoods. My early suburban upbringing offered me no contact with anyone other than people who were basically the same as me (oddly I was the minority as the only Protestant kid in my pretty much 100% Catholic neighborhood). That changed once we moved. An African American neighborhood was only a few blocks from my new house (literally at the end of my block just east of Millard Fillmore hospital).

Up to the time we moved to this neighborhood I had never seen a black person on my street or in my school, ever! As one of the few suburbs with a substantial black population, bussing was a possibility that weighed quite heavily on the minds of parents in Lackawanna. This was always a fear in my Lackawanna grammar school and any discussion of race among my peers at school revolved around how horrible it would be if they brought black kids to our school. In that city the races were conveniently divided by a swath of railroad tracks. In Buffalo the separation of races was stark, but but far less fixed.

I remember very clearly my early days at West Delevan School #56 ( Now Olmsted Magnet School one of the most respected schools in the region). Upon my first glimpse of the school I knew things were going to be very different. I am sure I was very nervous but I don't have any recollection of that emotion. The building was a hulking, three-story pile of brick and terra cotta pushed tight to the street and squeezed between its neighboring houses.

No big school yard, no play ground, and no name. Just a number to designate the place. It has a big grand auditorium off the back and a gym in the basement with a ceiling that is too low. Its upper classrooms look out on the vastness of the city with huge windows. It was all wondrous and strange. I remember making friends and enemies very quickly. The kids in my homeroom class could only be described as a rag tag group; they were short and tall, fat and freckled, smart and slow. A small number were also black. This is the closest I had ever been to a black person for an extended time. This was the first time I ever interacted with a black person.

The truth is the interaction between the white and black kids was still quite limited. Even in this close proximity the fact is that we came from very different worlds. We saw and interpreted things differently. Distrust was inherent in the relationship in both directions. Even so, I gained valuable incite into human interaction from that classroom. One such lesson happened unexpectedly.
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There was one kid who decided from the start that he did not like me. I was smallish and skinny and was not very athletic. I was an easy target for someone who needed to prove himself. This kid was always egging me on, teasing, and bullying. One day the pestering got a bit too much to tolerate and the only way to end it was to stand and fight. On the way home from school that day we came to blows. The fight gathered a crowd including many of the black kids. I was determined not to lose and fought to a draw. The African American kids were firmly on my side rooting me on the whole time. To them I was the underdog. I was their representative in that fight. To them my fight was their fight. I fought to a draw but I was not bothered by this kid any more. And though I never became close friends with the black kids in class we definitely had a new unspoken bond between us. I attended public school but the walls of this school were very broad.

Next up - #5 Exploration
Also - a reminder that you are invited to submit your own growing up city experience.

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What Others Have To Say

  1. lfh

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    Nov 17th 2008, 08:28

    What happened to the swimming pool?? Does anyone remember the principal, Elizabeth Fritz Strauss?

  2. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 09:12

    Black Rock and Riverside were pretty much all white in the early 1970's except for a few black families in the projects. After being somewhat sheltered attending the neighborhood school a big change came in 1970. We were sent to the "new" West Hertel Middle School and integration became a part of life for us. The black and white kids did not mix much at all and this did keep conflict on the back burner. A couple of years later at Riverside High School all hell broke loose resulting in the National Guard occupying our school. Black kids and white kids were attacked at random which brought an atmosphere of fear and distrust. Adults of both races not only added to the conflict but some actually took part in the violence. I do not have good memories of this time and believe our education suffered greatly due to the fear and hatred that dominated that year. By senior year we began to get along a little better and some whites and blacks even became friends. As I have said before I believe integration was the right thing to do and we are better for it but at the time it was not a pleasant experience for any, black or white.

  3. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 10:01

    I'll echo Blackrocklifer's sentiments regarding Riverside. The 'N' word is still tossed out regularly in conversation by the old timers and racism is not limited to isolated instances. Young people there seem to have more enlightened attitudes and, hopefully, time will make the neighborhood a more inclusive place to live.

    I think everyone would benefit from reading Malcolm Gladwell's best-selling book, 'Blink' (http://www.gladwell.com/blink/index.html), that discusses how we unconsciously perceive race.

    Harvard, in conjunction with other universities, has created an online test you can take (https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/demo/takeatest.html) to reveal your hidden biases on a number of issues, including race.

  4. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 10:50

    I think the racism that exists in Buffalo today is a result of the poverty that defines this city. It is easy to blame "others" for the problems that exist in our communities instead of looking at the real cause. Greed has resulted in a huge disparity in the distribution of wealth. The only way to make good citizen's and neighbors is to give all the opportunity to make a decent living, even those that may not be as bright or educated as we would desire. The "permanent underclass" should be an embarrassment to any decent American. Until we face this problem and demand change there is little hope of a better future.

  5. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 11:22

    Right on BlackRock. The problem is that many construe that to mean that thier tax dollars will be spent on more welfare for lazy cheats. The wealthiest country in America should be able to eliminate the continuous and self perpetuating chain of poverty that eats away like cancer in the inner city.

  6. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 11:57

    Those of us not in the 'permanent underclass' work very hard at not being a part of it. Greed's not the problem, lack of effort is. My son goes to kindnergarten at a well known public school. We do 30 minutes of homework a night (minimum), and then read a book. My suggestion to those that want to break the cycle you mention would be to do 45 minutes of homework a night, and read two books. There are no shortcuts.

  7. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:18

    Ben,

    Are you saying this to the child of a family who does not have that work ethic. The child grows up knowing only one way of doing things, that being the way his parents do things. Many children are trapped in this cycle. They will grow up to perpetuate it.

    My pre k children know the alphabet and all the sounds of the letters. They are doing rudimentary reading. There are children their age that don't even know what the alphabet is. Are you saying that these 4 year old children should buck it up and get off their lazy @sses? The problem is just not that simple.

  8. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:42

    Perhaps my issue lies more with blackrocklifer and his comment that "the "permanent underclass" should be an embarrassment to any decent American."

    If the 4 year olds parent's aren't motivated, or lack a 'work ethic', I'm supposed to feel embarrassed? If someone watches tv twelve hours a day, I'd say that's a choice, not some social issue that proves greed is the root of all evil.

  9. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:54

    4 year olds do not make informed choices. They make choices based on their environment and extremely limited experience with the world.

    You should not be embarrassed by the lazy TV watcher. You should be embarrassed that our country has no plan for or intent to change the situation that plagues the poorest parts of our country.

  10. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:54

    benfranklin- I agree parental involvement is key to success but I can remember a time when decent jobs were avaliable to anyone willing to work. This is not the case today because business has sold out the American worker to increase profits for themselves and shareholders. Shouldn't the richest country in the world be able (and willing) to pay a living wage to all?

  11. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:55

    Racism is simply a belief that one race is better than another. Humankind has invented excuses like poverty, lopsided tax systems, poor worth ethic, lack of values, or poor moral rectitude as reasons to deflect responsibility from ourselves. Racism can never be justified. That's the problem. That's why it still exists.

  12. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:13

    Steel, as far as the plan goes, aren't all of these issues going to be handled by Obama? That is what he promised. Once the no good republicans are out of the way, poverty shouldn't be an issue for Pelosi/Reid and Obama.

    blackrock, our country is losing wealth at an unprecedented rate. How would you pay a living wage to all? You see it that American business sold out the worker, I see it that consumers are satisfied with inferior goods made in countries that are worse off than ours.

  13. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:37

    Ben,

    Obama never promised any such thing. That is just a phony argument. Do you want to have a real conversation or should we just spew some Rush Limbaugh nonsense?

    What do you do about the 4 year old trapped in a cycle of poverty and ignorance? I don't have the answer. I do have an understanding of the complexity of the problem though.

  14. Colin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:52

    It's amazing how casual conservatives and libertarians are about the fate of poor children.

  15. EricOak

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:53

    The rhetoric here on both sides is simplistic.

  16. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:04

    Obama said he would change the world. I'm not making that up. I actually watched a number of his stump speeches, and he said it in each one (right at the end...just before the fireworks).

    I'm not real comfortable telling someone how they should raise their children, just as I wouldn't want someone telling me how to do that job. How can a child be 'trapped' in a situation brought about by his/her own parents?

  17. stewie

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:07

    Wow, I went there too & it was the only school where I ever got into a fight as well, at least that I couldn't run away from. I am emotionally traumatized having to take swimming classes there where the freakish fat gym teacher would make all the boys swim naked. The black kids would all piss in the pool & think it was great fun. Many other surreal experiences at that "institution."

  18. whynot

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:12

    We have set-up programs like Head Start, Universal Pre-K, WIC, and the School Readiness Acts to help break the cycle of poverty for the "permanent underclass". There are numerous before and after-school programs, intervention programs starting as early as age two, and community outreach programs available to every family who receives any type of public assistance or is in contact with Social Services in Buffalo.

    As Blackrocklifer aluded to above, the problem here is the parents of the poor who perpetuate the cycle of poverty. Generation after generation of poor families perpetuate the cycle by teaching their children more about the system than how to survive outside of it. They wish the best for their children, but wishes rarely evolve into actions. Too many families are looking for someone else to solve their problems, for more benefits, for more hand-outs, and for less work.

    God helps those who help themselves, I follow this same philosophy.

  19. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 15:23

    The idea from BRLifer's 10:50 comment that racism is caused by not having enough government action against wealth disparity isn't confrimed by countries like France. Very soft safety net over there. So many social programs that working is essentially optional. For those who do take a job, it's next to impossible to ever be fired or layed off. They go about as far as any country can go to try preventing wealth disparity, short of full socialism. Yet still there's a terrible amount of racism in that country.

  20. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 15:29

    Lets all be honest, the "permanent underclass" I refered to is everyone's problem. It is the fault of the parents (or lack of) and the ghetto culture, It is the fault of the greed that has devalued the American worker for profit of a few, and it is the fault of government that has allowed and even encouraged two separate America's to develop. Work is needed on all fronts to bring change.

  21. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:30

    Atwater- I spent some time in Chicago a few years ago and was suprised by the large middle class black neighborhoods unlike anything here in Buffalo. I was also suprised how well blacks and whites of the middle class socialized together. Economic opportunities make good citizens regardless of race and poverty does exactly the opposite.

  22. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:46

    BRL - Anecdotes can be told on both sides I'm sure.

    There's just as much chance the cause-effect is the other way around - people not burdened by racist hate perhaps are more likely to succeed in life because they're more likey to cooperate with others, learn from others, etc. - and eventually more likey to hold jobs that let them live in that middle class neighborhood of which you speak in which you observed better relations.

    On the other hand, people with more racist attitudes might keep getting fired from jobs for that reason or other reasons to do with them being stupid or being jerks, and end up disproportionately populating poor neighborhoods bringing their hate with them. In other words sometimes racism might contribute to someone staying poor as much or more than their poverty contributes to them being racist. If you or I ever become poor we still won't be racists. I think my France example is good. Lots of government efforts to keep incomes more equal - and still a lot of racism.

  23. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:58

    Atwater,

    What you say is true to an extent. Problem is that racism falls on both sides. You forget that the racism on the white side is responsible for setting up the poverty stricken ghetto in the first place. It would be nice to say OK we have a black president racism is now done. Thing is, 300 years of oppression leaves a lasting mark. The cycle of ignorance on both sides and the poverty it breeds can not be undone with a snap of the finger.

    That really gets to the heart of what the original story is about. Life learning is much more that a classroom activity. As white American I had no basis to understand black Americans until I lived in the city. Things are very different today of course but we still strive to separate ourselves into groups in this country. This separation make it very difficult to solve the serious social problems eating away at our inner cities.

  24. meanoldman

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:05

    there are no bad children, just bad parents, who had bad parents, that had bad parents, who's parents were poor and didn't know what being a good parent meant!

  25. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:10

    I didn't forget anything. It was just a blog comment, written in a balanced way, and without absolutes. It countributed one perspective to the conversaiton. Anyone reading it carefully can see, I didn't make any broad generalizations and wasn't claiming to explain every single g.d. aspect of the topic.

    As often happens here with some people, you in your mind read in absolutes into it, and then tell me what I 'forget' about.

  26. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:57

    AtwaterLouse, I agree with your earlier paragraph regarding cause-and-effect. Tolerance equals flexibility and that quality opens more doors for people to succeed. Whether one is white or black, being chained to racist attitudes helps no one. Personally, I think many of Buffalo's ills are the consequence of the lasting gasps of racism.

    No country or society is immune to racism. Your comment regarding France makes a good point. Just like our next door neighbor, Canada, it has a glass ceiling for minorities. My friends in Denmark often comment on the racial issues there in spite of the well-known social safety net. There is opportunity in many countries for minorities -- up to a point. Poverty is not a cause of racism; it's just one of the effects. Racism's only cause is ego.

  27. heathersmiles

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    Nov 17th 2008, 18:48

    Personally, I think we use the broad term of "racism" as a crutch far too often. The Emperor is naked, but we keep telling him how nicely he is dressed.

    We all know that there are many hard working poor who are doing their best to improve their situation in life, and there are many more who could care less about trying to make things better. Take a look at the unfortunate incident that took place on Jefferson Ave a few weeks ago. A child pointed a gun at a Police Officer and was killed, but instead of saying anything accusatory about the child or parents, we immediately blame the "SYSTEM" and the victim in the situation. We heard that the officer made an incorrect judgment based on the race of the attacker, and that the attacker had an untreated illness that could have prevented all of this. To that I say, Bullshit! The kid was a punk who robbed the wrong guy, the system didn't let him down, his parent(s) did.

    Same thing holds true for most of the poor, there are far too many people making babies in their abundant free time and then blaming the system for how hard it is to raise so many children. Three words for these people, GET A JOB! Walmart isn't racist, either is Target, or Dollar General, or Tops, or any of the numerous other employers out there with "HELP WANTED" posted in the window.

    Fact: Getting a job puts the generous welfare benefits in jeopardy, you are better off not working than to work for minimum or above minimum wage.

    Fact: Racism is often self-inflicted. There is too much "I can't because they are keeping me down" mentality in this world. This is the mentality that has crippled our nation and it is the antithesis of the work ethic that built it.

    Fact: There is a glass ceiling for all people, just because you are a white male doesn't mean that you are going to be a CEO, and just because you are an African American doesn't mean that you are going to be poor. We make our own lots in life, some are hungrier and willing to do more to make it.

    Fact: Any woman who has a child before she turns 21 is at a significant risk of poverty and hardship, yet the under 21 birth rate for minority and so called oppressed communities are more than 40 times higher than affluent and / or white communities.

    Fact: Sometimes it is better to be considered the underdog and a victim than it is to actually get up and move on with life. It is far too easy to use race, economic status, and gender as a crutch, and far harder to move beyond these self-limiting perceptions. I know because I fought this battle for years.

  28. heathersmiles

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    Nov 17th 2008, 18:52

    I was thinking the other day that it is appropriate that the Statue of Liberty is in New York State. I think we should change the plaque to read:

    Welcome to New York:

    Give me your lazy, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to live for free, The wretched and oppressed from the lower 48, Send these, the hopeless, welfare dependent, to me: I will show them through our golden door.

  29. georged

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    Nov 17th 2008, 19:40

    Excellent posts Heather!! Well stated. A lot of "talkers" on this site that feel that many of the poor have had no other choices. You can get a good education in any city school or a bad education in the top-rated suburban school. It is up to the individual and their family. Without a family support to help you and push you, it is a challenge to do so.

    If so many of the posters here are concerned they should volunteer at one of the most deprived Buffalo Public Schools. That may do more to help the city than protesting demolitions of rat-infested homes or getting bike racks built.

  30. Biniszkiewicz

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    Nov 17th 2008, 20:46

    Cannot recommend highly enough the book "Black Rednecks and White Liberals" by Thomas Sowell. Exceptional insights into racism in America and educational attitudes within the African American community. Splendid read.

  31. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 20:59

    heather- You are making the case that racism comes from distrust, ignorance, and especially misinformation. It is the lack of personal relationships caused by segregation of the poor (and minorities) that separate us. Stereotypes about different cultures soon fall apart when we are fortunate to get to know others as co-workers, neighbors, and of course friends.

  32. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 21:12

    and this applies to poor people

  33. allfit

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    Nov 17th 2008, 23:26

    BRL - Where did you read that in Heather's comments? You have a magical way of painting racism and oppression by the wealthy into most of your comments. On the flip side, you paint pictures of the suburbs and the affluent with a very broad brush, assuming that someone from the suburbs or someone with money has no reason to be friends with minorities or the poor. That is an absolutely incorrect stereotype.

  34. sonyactivision

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    Nov 17th 2008, 23:37

    When the factories closed and the jobs moved out of Buffalo, everybody was affected. Some had enough social mobility (i.e. they were white) to find work elsewhere and they too left. Others were stranded and relied on public assistance to survive. Many would also leave to find work but lack the education, the means to move, or the desire to leave their neigborhoods to act. But to villify these people as "lazy" and "on the take" just isn't fair. What you perceive as laziness might be the choice by someone not to work at a job that pays $1,000 a month when that simply isn't a living wage. Likewise, a young woman who gives birth does so for a variety of personal reasons, not merely to game the system. It's like so many of you people never evolved after Reagan left office.

  35. heathersmiles

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    Nov 18th 2008, 00:48

    Sony - You describe a series of choices. The choice not to take a job paying $1,520 a month (what McDonald's current pays) because they believe that they deserve more. The choice to bring children into the world without being able to care for them or to provide them with an environment that the child can thrive in. The choice to live off welfare instead of seeking new skills or taking a new job. The choice to let external factors, such as your own perception of what someone else will think of you, keep you from being all you can be.

    These are choices that cost everyone in the end. We can paint this as racism, as laziness, as anything we want to paint it. The fact is that there are choices to be made in this life, and those choices dictate our success or failure in many aspects of life, from parenting to wealth, from education to prison, and every other variable imaginable.

    There are choices regarding race, to not even try at a job because you might feel that the employer won't hire someone of your skin color, age, religion, gender, or country of origin is a cop out. There are numerous laws that protect minorities in this country, and it is easy money for someone who has been discriminated against.

    The fact is that it is easier to live off $1,240 a month in direct benefits for a family of 4 than it is to work at McDonalds' for $1,520. Why start on a career path when the initial reward is so low, especially when there is no promise of moving up to $1,800 or $2,500 per month. The notion of "you have to start somewhere" is totally lost on many people. They come in to do a job that they already feel they are overqualified for and underpaid to do, this is a recipe for failure and it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  36. gaustad

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    Nov 18th 2008, 01:14

    nothing like collecting welfare in buffalo and dealing some drugs on the side.....throw in some pizza and subs every night, a heat subsidy, and you got yourself a decent life style.....now only if the Bills could win a few games

  37. STEEL

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    Nov 18th 2008, 01:31

    Instead of talking about the people who have a choice let's talk about the people who don't have a choice - " the children ". It is very convenient to leave them out of the discussion.

  38. pegger

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    Nov 18th 2008, 02:57

    And, Steel, that is the point. Not everyone prepares their kids for school before Kindergarten. Some don't even give the thought a passing glance. All this talk of choice and welfare and racism is merely a middle class (or more closely a middle American) perspective on the poor. The children have no choice about the parents they get nor the kind of environment they will grow up in. Unless there is something uniquely special about a child born into poverty or an exceptional family with middle class aspirations, most of them are doomed to remain life long members of the underclass. Sudies show that even with a Head Start experience kids lose the ground they gained by the second grade.

    I went to a school similar to yours in Buffalo but not in a neighborhood such as privileged. For half of my sixth grade year while my parents were between houses on Grand Island and Kenmore, I had to attend what was then PS 65 on Skillen St. in Riverside. It was my first and last experience going to school with minority kids (courtesy of the Ontario Street projects). It was the worst year in my life for it felt like a year. The upside was that I was the smartest kid in the entire sixth grade and learned very little even though I had excellent teachers. Said teachers were distracted by poorly behaved kids who had very poor habits not having by even that age to have the prerequisite skills to be ready to learn.

    Even at age 11 I knew that these kids were getting an inferior education and why. And, I reiterate, I had excellent teachers. So, even into mid childhood, where you lived played a significant role in student success. When you look at the whole package, children do not have choices. I strongly contend that those who profess that all children arrive at adulthood with even the right experiences, attitudes and social skills can make it by merely working hard and making the right choices is ludicrous. But, that's what happens when we deign to superimpose our values on others who do not play on the mythical level playing field we Americans would love to insist this country is.

  39. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 08:40

    I have been involved in my community for many years and as a landlord I have first hand knowledge of the working and non-working poor. I have no illusions that they are all tragic victims but I also know quite well just how challengeing life can be without the middle class safety net so many take for granted. Poor people don't have the connections for good jobs or even housing. They don't always have dependable family members or even parents to help in an emergency or just as a mentor. There are some that take advantage but most work at crappy jobs (that we don't want) and are paid crappy wages. We as taxpayers subsidize their food, shelter, health care, etc. instead of demanding a decent working wage for all.

  40. benfranklin

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    Nov 18th 2008, 09:00

    blackrock... I find that I'm in agreement with much of what you write, until you make the statement (repeatedly) 'demanding a decent working wage for all'. Who are we demanding this from? My understanding of the job market is that it's a competitive place, where skills dictate compensation. If I'm missing something, please explain.

  41. georged

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    Nov 18th 2008, 09:50

    Blackrock, you are such a caring person. If you are so concerned go adopt a poor family in CrackRock. Stop complaining and do something.

  42. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 12:52

    benfranklin- Presently taxpayers make up the difference when employers do not pay enough for a person to stay out of poverty. Raising the minimum wage would go a long ways towards reducing the need for taxpayer subsidies. The saving to government could be used to offset the increased cost to business (maybe a tax break). Business would benefit from a more stable and content worker and the taxpayer would benefit from less social services.

    georged- My community credentials are solid, Tell us what you have done for our city.

  43. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 13:25

    pegger- well said, My experience living in a pretty poor neighborhood makes me skeptical of the comments made by white bread middle class folks. Their perception is not the reality and the complexity of the problem is much bigger than they see or care to admit.

  44. whynot

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    Nov 18th 2008, 13:59

    Pegger - Are you insinuating that poor parents are incapable of raising their children effectively? No child has a say in the choice of their birth parents, are you saying that we should remove children from poverty stricken homes to have them raised by more capable wealthy parents, sort of like the third world countries who sell their babies to adoption agencies to rich Americans can adopt them?

    BRL - You should know better. Get off your f...ing high horse already. Rich White Bread Middle Class folks just keepin' the brothers down. Right? You know the true struggles cuz you be keepin' it real by livin' in the city. You are all about telling everyone else what they should do with their money, but you still haven't addressed the root of the problems mentioned above.

    Are you that ignorant that you cannot see the role of the individual plays in being poor? You are all about blaming the system for letting the individual down, as someone explained above. Maybe the individual needs to own their situation and take steps to make it better instead of sitting by and waiting for one of the RICH WHITE BREAD MIDDLE CLASS to take care of their situation for them.

    Businesses would not benefit from a higher minimum wage, businesses already struggle to keep up with the minimum wage, SSI and other benefits that must be paid for all workers. It hits the small and mid-sized business owners the most. I know from your previous comments that you primarily see businesses as huge, faceless, greedy institutions that are only in existence to line the pockets of the executives at the expense of the laborers, but this is just not the case for most businesses. Most Americans are employed by small to mid-sized businesses, and these businesses struggle to keep up with the ever escalating burden placed on them from myopic government policies aimed at one particular subset of the population.

    The problem of poverty is huge, and most Americans understand that. What they don't understand is how someone can sit on their ass taking hand-outs from the government and can still feel that they are above a minimum wage job no matter what we pay in minimum wage. The same complaints existed when Minimum Wage was $2.25 an hour, and will exist if we raise it to $15.25 an hour.

    I am interested to see what your socialist oriented mind feels about HeatherSmiles' comment in the church thread. That is pretty scary stuff.

  45. Dangelo23

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:40

    Buffalo is a big time poor city, no wonder people are so moody there. Everyone wants a good paying job and some just want a hand out and not too much help for either groups. No wonder people are still fighting with each other.

  46. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:41

    Whynot- you are right, We gotta stop those crazy kids from choosing to be born to poor parents, what are they thinkin?

  47. whynot

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:57

    BRL - Don't be an ass!

    What we need to do is stop blaming the system and do something about the parents. We have numerous services and programs for every child in NYS, but yet we still say that they are at a disadvantage and incapable of thriving.

  48. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 17:48

    Very interesting comments. Heathersmiles angry rant about poor (read black) people making babies and living of the rest of us appeals to the base instinct in all of us. Tell them what they want to hear heather, that the poor are dragging us all down and it their own fault and the middle class are burdened by the hordes of poor people living large while we all go to work each day. Don't consider how complex this issue really is and certainly don't admit that we have created this "permanent underclass" from years of racism and segregation of the poor.

  49. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:06

    Rocker: if you think the underclass was created by racism and segregation and accuse others of not being aware of the complexity, I think you need to dig a little deeper. It's not just segregation and racisim. Keep digging and find out how complex it really is

  50. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:07

    Rocker: if you think the underclass was created by racism and segregation and accuse others of not being aware of the complexity, I think you need to dig a little deeper. It's not just segregation and racisim. Keep digging and find out how complex it really is

  51. TheWhyNotGuy

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:13

    It's hard to demand that entry level McDonalds employees work hard and live within their means when we turn around and give a multimillion dollar welfare check to AIG executives so they can throw another retreat.

    Personal responsibility isn't just for poor people, and sometimes welfare queens wear suits from Brooks Brothers.

  52. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:18

    carlmalone- never claimed it is the only reason, just that it is the one people find hard to accept.

  53. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:35

    "Don't consider how complex this issue really is and certainly don't admit that we have created this "permanent underclass" from years of racism and segregation of the poor. " Read it yourself, i don't see room for other factors. Please explain the complexity and other factors

  54. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:40

    Mayor Griffin once quoted on AM Buffalo regarding why the Eastside was the last to be snowplowed: "The people in South Buffalo have to get up and go to work in the morning" he said.

  55. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:55

    Blackrockers- gotta agree w/ Griffin on his snowplowing comment!! Why is their so much poverty and welfare on Eastside? It's easy to live broke in Buffalo, collect unemployment, welfare, food stamps, and get tons of tax breaks. Why work?? Just get fat eating wings and pizza, sit on your ass, steal from others and sell drugs ...good way to make a living in B-lo. The "suburb" people who seemed to get slammed in this blog topic a lot can pay all their hard earned money to taxes to support these lifestyles. If people felt more "heat" that they weren't going to get a "free ride" anymore from the govt, state, and city maybe it would light a fire under their ass to actually get a job and work!! Be productive and do something w/ themselves. There's no urgency when all we do is spoon feed them w/ benefits for being broke and keep them dependent on this support! In Toronto there are tons of homeless people b/c they aren't getting all the freebies like they do in this city. How many homeless people do you really see here...not nearly as many as in other cities. Our unemployed are sitting on couches watching TV while are tax money pays for it!

  56. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:58

    sometimes i sit and wonder how many of the "POOR "people just wish they had a computer , so that they might join us in this debate!! turn off your power and heat , lets see whats more important, food , shelter , or sitting in your warm office telling the rest of the city what is the best thing they can do for there family!!! the segregation seems to be between us and those that are unable ,for whatever reason can't afford to be in our conversation!

  57. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:41

    hey sweetie- look at the economy, how far do you think you are away from living like the tons of homeless in another country. if you look at a map you live to the east of a poverty stricken area.

  58. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:55

    Well oldman- thats an "interesting" way of looking at it, doesn't make a heck of a lot of sense since every suburb in every city in the US is also sitting "east of a poverty stricken area "as well??!! As for people sitting in their office typing while the "poor" aren't included in our conversation, well i see a lot of libraries with public computers that our tax money pays for so these people can use them to actually find jobs or go on internet, yet when i am in the library they are almost always empty? Why is that?Maybe because these poor people don't want to find a job?! Maybe they like how they live. And also lets get a little more realistic or synical as you may say...how many of these people truly don't have a laptop of their own, either stolen or bought w/ some forms of funds they acquired? You give too much empathy to those who don't deserve it. I do truly feel bad for the poor families that have exhausted every mean to find work and really are ina bad state which is not their own fault. For the others, who are just there due to laziness, I have no sympathy at all or patience left for that.

  59. heathersmiles

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:59

    HEY BLACKROCK! My definition of poor is not "Black"... why the hell would you even say something like that? Did you know that I grew up qualifying for public assistance, with most of my schoolmates and friends on welfare? Did you know that I have also lived in the city most of my life, grew up there, moved to Boston, lived in the city... yep, this white girl off the lake knows some African Americans, some poor, and even some hispanics.

    You are perpetuating the negative stereotypes. Maybe you equate poor with "Black" but that is your issue. Don't project your biased values on my comments. Jackass!

  60. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:09

    Heathersmiles...you go girl!! I have been waiting to hear somebody tell that #!## off for a while with all his ignorant oppinions and statements!! Kudos to you!!

  61. sonyactivision

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:24

    ^ You lot talk a lot about the lazy poor people in the East Side so here's a question: where are the jobs for these people in the East Side? What jobs didn't they apply for? Is there a major employer in the hood that's hiding somewhere behind all those boarded up storefronts? Oh wait a minute, the jobs are all out in Amherst and Clarence. Uh Oh. The bus service sucks and gas and car upkeep are expensive. And forget about finding a place to live...never mind, best to sit there "getting fat eating wings and pizza". Maybe the reason they don't make the choices you did is that they don't want to become hateful and mean-spirited like you.

  62. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:34

    HS: Don’t come down so hard the rock. He’s showing his depth of understand of a complex subject by simply dumbing it down to black vs. white and following it up with incoherent attack applying his own botched logic showing a complete misunderstanding of the subject matter. I give him/her an A for ignorance and B+ for a faulty cognitive mental process. I second Jackass!

  63. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:37

    heather- maybe your "definition of poor is not black" but your 18:48 post starts out with a crime on Jefferson Ave. and continues to "too many people making babies" and to "GET A JOB, walmart target, etc are not racist" . then its on to "just because you are African American doesn't mean you are going to be poor" and finally you quote statisics "birth rate for minority and so called oppressed is 40 times higher than affluent/ white" Sounds like your talking about black people to me. But hey,at least you found a kindred spirit in Sweetie

  64. davvid

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:38

    Of course thee Buffalo flaw is the "hyperlocal" viewpoint. We could point to someone on the street that isn't "dressed for success" and wonder why or point to some mother telling her child to "shut the fuck up" and wonder why. We could call them lazy and then watch as more and more people become "lazy" as we continue to lose jobs. To a person that can no longer afford the food at Wegmans--we can suggest that they go to Big Lots or Aldis. To a person without a home computer(and a library of pirated software) we could suggest that they go to the public library. We could offer up anecdotes and band-aids based on lazy logic or we could evolve and notice emerging technologies, business models, economic trends, demographic/political trends etc. and capitalize, carve out a place for ourselves, make money, gain cultural and political influence and start to rebuild the fabric of our community.

  65. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:41

    pizza and wings suck in Amherst! rent is too high. stay fat and mean. i got a job boarding up houses for people that gave up on the city!!!

  66. buffawakening

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:53

    i think the poor have a fantastic opertunity to move up the social ladder in america. you get free public schooling up to the age of 18. then after that, the government will pay IN FULL for your college tution if you go to a SUNY school. state schools also are very lenient when accepting teenagers from inner city schools, as they know many of the schools themselves are failing. what more oportunity can you have?

  67. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:02

    buffawakening- you ask "what more opportunity can you have?" that's easy, don't be born poor. But I do agree public education is at least avaliable to the poor. Having the support and home stability to see it through can be tough for many.

  68. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:32

    if i'm not mistaken we are all born broke ,naked and poor . it's our parents that take and teach each of us the value of knowledge, hard work,values and self esteem. when you were born did you know if you were black or white? any of you were born by chance! just remember when we die, we leave this world , broke , naked and poor.the same as we entered!!!

  69. pegger

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:35

    Whynot, I reread my comments and nowhere can I find an implication that children should be removed from poverty homes. My sad point is that the kids get what they get. They have no choice good or bad. To think that all parents regardless of race and class are equal is also ludicrous. Here is one that you can really bite into: stupidity is inherited. All psychometric studies say it is so! Check out "The Bell Curve." It proves that the old adages such as "The apple doesn't fall to far from the tree," and "You can't breed work horses and get race horses," just might have some validity. Did you hear me advocating for forced sterilization? I surely hope not!

  70. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 18th 2008, 22:26

    Listen up, America-odds are, your kid is NOT special. Einstein? Special. Hitler? Very special. Your little jackass? Not so much. Will your child leave his mark on the world? Probably not. A stain, maybe. A mark-that’s probably a reach. Jeffrey Dahmer left his mark. So did Jesus. And Babe Ruth. Your kid–­ c’mon. Let’s get real. Unless he kills and eats twenty-five people or walks on water or hits eight hundred absolutely steroid-free home runs, he will more than likely live a boring, fat, stupid and uneventful life and then die from some horrible form of cancer. If he’s a boy-ass cancer. If she’s a girl—cancer of the breast or vagina. Them’s the facts. There will be another Adolf one day as well as another Albert and there are plenty of Osamas and Kennedys to go around, but you should really take a good long look in the mirror. Odds are against your kid being smart or talented or good-looking unless AND your husband/boyfriend/sperm donor are BOTH smart and talented and good-looking. If yer both morons-yer kids’re gonna be morons. It’s the old apple-not-falling-too-far-from-the-tree theory. If yer both fat-asses-yer kids’re gonna be fat-asses. If you happen to be one of those couples they base shitty network sitcoms on-pretty, smart chick with dumb fat husband-more than likely you’ll have two kids and hopefu­lly-one will be cute and smart and the other a lumpen chunk of meat. And all the government-approved, good American know-how kid­-fixing-drugs imported in dangerous plastic bottles from China won’t help one bit. Give up the dream of rearing someone who is going to cure any major disease or invent the next groundbreaking electronic doodad or even sing a number one song. Dial it down a notch. Aim for goals that may actually be within your child’s grasp: the paper-hat-wearing manager at McDonald’s. A driver for UPS. Secretary. Wet-nurse. Welder. Then when things don’t work out with union jobs—teach them how to count they can always fall back on the safety net of crystal meth manufacturing. You can do it in your own home. Sure—there may not be a dental plan, but in the world of crystal meth-Iack of teeth is not a detriment. It’s actually a badge of honor.

  71. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 22:47

    Rocker: I love how you equate poor with black, especially since over half of all the poor people in the U.S. are white. In fact, poor whites outnumber all poor minorities combined. Acoording to 2005 Census data, poor whites are the only group that is both growing in number and getting poorer. So when you hear poor, you should think "white" first

  72. buffawakening

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    Nov 18th 2008, 22:54

    blackrocklifer- i completely agree that the home plays a huge role in shaping sucess. however the lack of family support is somthing we cant really do anything about.

  73. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 19th 2008, 01:22

    At least a third of all homeless men are African-American. African-Americans make up 12 percent of the general population, but they account for almost half of the prison population. According to the U.S. Justice Department, 28 percent of black men born today will go to prison in their lifetimes. Black youth are six times more likely to die of homicide than white youth and seven times more likely to commit a homicide. Homicide is the leading cause of death among African-American males ages 15 to 29. Brown vs. the Board of Education—these people who marched and were hit in the face with rocks and punched in the face to get an education, and we've got these knuckleheads walking around who don't want to learn English low expectations coming from a teacher can cause a student to fail but low expectations coming from a parent can crush the soul and many of these kids are being left to raise themselves. No longer is a person embarrassed because they’re pregnant without a husband. No longer is a boy considered an embarrassment if he tries to run away from being the father of the unmarried child I ’m talking about these people who cry when their son is standing there in an orange suit. "that my baby" Where were you when he was two? Where were you when he was twelve? Where were you when he was eighteen, and how come you don’t know he had a gun? And where is his father, and why don’t you know where he is? And why doesn’t the father show up to talk to this boy? Cain and Abel syndrome, or simply cainism, is the killing of a nesting.

  74. TheWhyNotGuy

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    Nov 19th 2008, 09:53

    "No longer is a person embarrassed because they’re pregnant without a husband."

    Bristol Palin didn't seem to be.

  75. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 11:05

    carlmalone- of course there are more poor whites, blacks are only about 12% of the population. Here in Buffalo the majority of the poor are black.

  76. Clyde

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    Nov 19th 2008, 13:44

    WHAT WE LEARNT FROM BUFF RISING TODAY:

    Today boys and girls we learned that rich white parents in the suburbs are better at raising their kids than the poor black parents in the city. We learned that children of poor black parents are more likely to go to prison, be homeless than children of rich white parents. We learned that even though blacks are only 12% of the population yet they make up more than 50% of the prison population.

    We also learned that if we pay people more money then they won't be as poor. If we pay more for minimum wage then maybe poor people will want to work at the same job that they won't take today because it doesn't pay enough.

    We also learned that we have a lot of government programs that aren't working because poor people are lousy parents.

  77. Biniszkiewicz

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    Nov 19th 2008, 13:51

    As to the discussion of how to break the cycle of poverty: yes, it is a difficult and complex issue. I agree with those who exhibit concern: poverty is real, pervasive and warrants remedy. But how to address?

    Subsidize something and you will only get more of it. At the same time, pretend a problem doesn't exist and it will only fester. What to do?

    Throwing benefits at the problem hasn't worked. Liberal allocation of welfare benefits has failed to lift recipients out of poverty. Instead, it has encouraged (via direct subsidy) irresponsible reproductive behavior. The fact that 2/3 minority births are out of wedlock is a travesty and an indictment of the system. Single parent households are almost guaranteed to be low income. This is behavior which can and should be changed. How to benefit the innocent child without unintentially rewarding the irresponsible parenting?

    Changing the built environment also doesn't work. We tried that, too, societially speaking. All the urban renewal projects of the 50s, 60s and 70s were aimed at the elimination of poverty. The dream floated back then was that the poor were held down by their built environment. Squalor injured hope and pride and inhibited social climbing; replace squalor with good housing and good behavior would replace the self destructive behavior we abhored; that was the argument. But it turns out this thinking was not supported by reality. All we ended up funding were expensive tenements in which poverty was concentrated, helplessness and the sense of victimhood institutionalized.

    I, personally, would support orphanages as a means of interdiciton in the cycle of poverty. My proposal: if a familty is receiving welfare benefits, no more than two children may live within the household at any time. The others would go to orphanages (run by church groups, non-church groups, any non profits which passed standards set by society). I believe there are very many well intentioned adults who would volunteer or find jobs in such orphanages. I think the affected children would benefit from the experience, particularly as compared to their current circumstances. I am often struck by the success of those who grew up in orphanages in the Depression. Most seem to have entered society as responsible adults, fully capable of blending into society. Back in the Depression, when a family could no longer afford to raise children they had to cede custody (at least temporarily). The prospect of losing custody of children would be a powerful disincentive to irresponsible procreation. The surest way to diminish poverty? Don't bring into the world children whom you cannot afford to rear.

    As a former landlord of many Section 8 tenants, my experience is that one of the biggest impediments to employment for poor people is the prospect of losing health care benefits. American health care is outrageously expensive as well as a mill stone around the neck of employers (look no further than legacy costs at the Big Three). Single payer health care, like those systems the rest of the civilized world employs, would help fix the broken rungs at the bottom of the economic ladder.

  78. davvid

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    Nov 19th 2008, 14:33

    There are plenty of kids that grow up with bad unsupportive parents. When you are poor surrounded by other poor people, there are fewer examples to look up to and becoming wealthy just seems improbable. Of course some people have the strength and will power to rise above almost anything. Most people don't have that kind of ambition. We get by and do slightly better or slightly worse than our friends and family.

  79. d_a_n

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    Nov 19th 2008, 15:10

    where's that guy who always blames the jews? he should get involved with this arguement...

  80. bhorvath

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    Nov 19th 2008, 15:23

    Steel, I didn't comment when one chapter of your autobiography said something like 'moving from the East to West side of Buffalo really gave me perspective on the world', or something similar, but now this story with the 'I was fighting for black people' at the end...well your narcissism has found new hieghts.

    There's a form of guilt that some ex-pats of WNY feel that makes them sentimental for Buffalo (that's my diagnosis of myself)...perhaps your living in Chicago gives you some motivation to come up with some of your points of view of yourself and WNY. Too bad it seems you have taken it to the extreme where you have become saint to the African American community, oracle of the future of WNY as well assessor of architectural value and historical signifcance.

    Have you ever tried moving back to Buffalo? I did but my sentimental feelings dissapated and I left. Maybe you should go back and see how you feel when you actually have to live there 24-7.

  81. buffawakening

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    Nov 19th 2008, 15:24

    "My proposal: if a familty is receiving welfare benefits, no more than two children may live within the household at any time. The others would go to orphanages "

    thats a bit radical dont you think? talk about big brother stepping into our family rooms...

  82. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 15:31

    Bini- We all agree the way we are doing it now isn't working. Taxpayer subsidies to the poor are very inefficient and do little to get at the root of the problem. The dollars spent would be better utilized to raise the wages of the working poor and motivate them to be contributing citizens. Single payer health insurance would go a long way towards making this possible. (I was also a landlord and agree with your comment about losing healthcare). I can't agree with your idea about orphanages, too much big brother in the room for me.

  83. heather_b

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    Nov 19th 2008, 16:47

    The only thing that isn't working here are the lazy people living on my dime.

  84. davvid

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    Nov 19th 2008, 17:10

    heather_b How many people are you supporting with your taxes? really. 700billion to wall street. What% of that is coming from heather_b in Buffalo, New York?

  85. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 17:18

    Many have the mistaken idea that "their taxes" go to social services. In reality aid to the poor is a small part of the tax burden so many like to whine about.

  86. heather_b

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    Nov 19th 2008, 17:22

    Davvid - you are mixing apples and oranges... companies give back to the communities while poor welfare people just keep taking and taking.

  87. Colin

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    Nov 19th 2008, 17:44

    It's a bit pathetic that someone who is privileged and comfortable enough to spend time arguing on a blog would resent the poor.

  88. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 18:10

    heather_b- "companies give back to communities" Yeah, Those companies sure gave us something, the shaft.

  89. davvid

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    Nov 19th 2008, 18:17

    Generally I'm suspicious of people that go on about "lazy" people living off of their dime. I'm suspicious of the ugly resentment toward the weakest in a community--it just seems like we continue to use the poor as a scapegoat throughout history even when we have never walked in their shoes.

    The other day I was listening to recordings by Studs Terkel and a few of the interviewees reflect on memories of the Great Depression and even then when there was so much poverty some of the "haves" would still saythe unemployed were lazy. That amazes me. I'm not denying that we are wasting tax dollars in some cases and government should fairly examine programs that seem to be failing but righlt now who are we to sit here on a blog and separate legitimate poverty worthy of public assistance from illegitimate poverty. Doesn't seem right

  90. STEEL

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    Nov 19th 2008, 18:32

    bhorvath,

    Where exactly did I say I was fighting FOR black people?

    And, I see that even though you see Buffalo as a crap hole you can't keep away from BRO.

    By the way, this series is not really about Buffalo. It is about growing up in cities in general but, you would have to actually read the stories to get that.

  91. meanoldman

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    Nov 19th 2008, 18:35

    i like orphans where do i buy one?

  92. bhorvath

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    Nov 19th 2008, 18:46

    "I was their representative in that fight. To them my fight was their fight." Try reading your stories, I read it til the end where your holier than thou statement emerged.

    I don't think Buffalo is a craphole. That's a pretty lame cop-out on your part. I think the so-called advocates of Buffalo really are elitists who want to shrink the city to a thing like Burlington VT, and really have no concern over the fact that most folks can't afford to live in the EVA or rehab a 60k house into a 300k urban chic pad, or realize that those same folks are the ones that benefit the least from preservation of historic structures into things that have no bearing in their lives. You represent the faction on BRO that is more concerned about how cool looking it is around their nice domeciles when they go out for a $5 latte every morning, and who is more concerned if buff architecture of the last century is mentioned in the NYT. That may attract a few doctors to come to Roswell, and get a few arch's to do some jobs in Buffalo, and get a few hundred folks in a good stream of employment, and maybe get some folks to day trip here.....but it so far far from where the rubber hits the road for true Buffalonians that I consider it a duty to remind everyone of that harsh yet correctible reality.

  93. bhorvath

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    Nov 19th 2008, 19:03

    BRO running a story that's not about Buffalo?

    Steel must have special clearance....BRO doesn't peddle their bikes past Kenmore Ave, Harlem Road or Seneca Street as far as I knew.

    Steel - why not go back to Buff and work on preservation?

    I wen't back for two years and must have dripped 30-40k into the local economy over that time.

    I feel strange blogging here, as I did leave, and really don't have a huge stake in the failure of WNY...but you seem to have claimed a right to dictate the path forward for Buffalo which is a lot ironic to me. Move back or let true Buffalonians step up to the mike.

    And if they don't take your place...well think about that too.

  94. crisa

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    Nov 19th 2008, 19:31

    About Orphanages:

    Orphanages existed and were a refuge for children in the US in the first half of the 20th century for reasons far different from today. Orphanages were able to teach kids values while educating, feeding, clothing and sheltering them.

    Many fine adults came out of those orphanages.

    There were many good reasons for the need of those orphanages. But widespread promiscuousness was NOT one of them.

    Today, all that would happen would be that the "parents" would be free to make more kids.

  95. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 19th 2008, 19:37

    Disclosed Sarcasm is a form of speech or writing which is bitter or cutting, being intended to taunt its target.

    Derek Vinyard " We're so hung up on this notion that we have some obligation to help the struggling black man, you know. Cut him some slack until he can overcome these historical injustices. It's crap. I mean, Christ, Lincoln freed the slaves, like, what? 140 years ago. How long does it take to get your act together?"

  96. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 19:42

    I think a little research on orphanages would paint a different pictures than the rosy one imagined. Although many of the institutions took pretty good care of the children others were places of abuse and neglect. Many kids did adjust and became good citizens but for others it was a nightmare that they carried the rest of their lives. The so called Indian Schools were especially cruel , all done of course "for the good of the children"

  97. crisa

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    Nov 19th 2008, 20:02

    OH! Wow! Hold on there! "Single payer health care" is NOT the same as the government sponsored health care practices of other countries!!!

    Single-payer heath care is yet another fast-growing HMO monopoly in the US!

  98. crisa

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    Nov 19th 2008, 20:13

    Indians being moved to reservations was also incredibly cruel--an experience I heard about in my childhood from witnesses--I was referring to Father Baker's children.

  99. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 20:30

    crisa- Agreed, Our treatment of Native Americans was incredibly cruel and Father Baker's did have a good reputation

  100. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 19th 2008, 20:46

    When I was a child and I would act up my mother would threaten to send me to Father Baker's..... of course that would scare me straight which is why I walk around now just wishing I could grab every other mouthy, misbehaved, spoiled and rotten little urchin I come across in stores and restaurants and just when I’m walking down the street—kids who are throwing snit fits in public as their disinterested or seem­ingly powerless parents stand off to the side and let the rest of us listen to the whining-I just once wanna grab them HARD by the flesh on their twiggy upper arms, that soft flesh that really really hurts-and I mean grab them bruise-inducing, five-finger-indentation-Left-behind hard­—and whisper Clint Eastwood-style right in their dirty little ear: Listen up and listen fast, punk, ’cause I’m only sayin’ this one goddam time: yer gonuna shut the hell up right now and start doing what yer dumbass mom and dad say from here on in or a special van is gonna pull up one day and just pluck you right off the goddam street and drop your ass on a plane to Iraq where you will be dropped out of the sky with nuthin’ but a para­chute and a bag of white rice—no cash, no toys, no more SpongeBob SquareAss—ya follow? I’d like to see how far their overinflated self-esteem plummets after that.

  101. meanoldman

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    Nov 19th 2008, 21:00

    oh no not the indians, anything but the indians. black, white, rich poor, shur but not the indians!! start circling the wagons boys here comes a completely different line of crap to write about, (THE POOR INDIANS), what's next the midgets, the poor little midgets!!! i'm heading for the hills before a family of sasquatch is discovered living on welfare somewhere on the waterfront!!! (POOR POOR SASQUACH)!!!!! something must be done.

  102. Biniszkiewicz

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    Nov 19th 2008, 21:31

    While promiscuity was not the biggest reason for orhpanages in pre WWII America (though it was one reason), lack of resources with which to raise the children was. Parents gave up custody of children (especially in the Depression) primarily because they could not afford to raise them. It was a heartbreaking circumstance but a vital social safety net.

    I don't agree that impoverished parents today would just 'have more' kids if orhpanages provided a safety valve. I think most parents would be devastated at the prospect of losing custody of their children. Poor people also love their kids. Losing custody, in and of itself, would be a powerful disincentive to reckless procreation. A skeptic might argue that all these single fathers seem not to care at all, and they might never. They have little to do with the children today, they're not the caretakers. But you cannot raise a child day in and day out without growing powerfully attached. To caretaker and child alike, losing custody would be a very difficult ordeal. It would be heart rending. It would be avoided by most at all cost. Many absentee fathers today see procreation as a sign of manhood. So long as there is no societal backlash against irresponsible impregnation, this view will persist. That perception of 'manhood' might change quickly if children were taken away from the mothers.

    As for orphanages being too 'big brother' for our tastes, orphanages seem very radical today only because there aren't any anymore. Once they were commonplace. There is no market for them today only because of direct government transfer payments to parents. Yet it is those very payments which skew values, encouraging single parent families and excessive reproduction. How else do we strike a balance between aiding innocent children and discouraging irresponsible parenting?

    Want your children back? Wean yourself from the public teat. As soon as you no longer need society to bail you out, take back your kids by all means. Please.

    On the topic of single payer health care, that is government paying the bills. I personally favor a Canadian style system (as opposed to, say, the German model which is similar to what Hilary Clinton proposed back in the 90s). There are many variations on health care, but nowhere in the industrialized world does any nation spend anywhere near as much as we (we spend 17% of GNP; next highest is Switzerland at 10% GNP), and nowhere else are vast numbers of citizens uninsured.

  103. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 19th 2008, 21:50

    bini- agree completely on health care, I think it really holds our country down. both business and citizens pay far too much. Can't agree on the orphanage, too cold blooded and goes against basic freedoms. As for absent daddies, I think you are overly optimistic many already have "lost custody" in one way or another.

  104. whynot

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    Nov 19th 2008, 22:37

    Oh please let the government offer universal health insurance to all Americans. I can't wait for the day when I no longer have to work in case I get sick or injured. The day we roll out universal health care paid for by the government is the day that I quit my job and start working off the books again. Please don't take this as a snarky or otherwise sarcastic statement, I am dead honest. Give me free health care and I will no longer need to worry about staying employed, I am seriously looking forward to this.

  105. allfit

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    Nov 19th 2008, 22:53

    Things are starting to sound a little like Soylent Green.

  106. STEEL

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    Nov 19th 2008, 23:13

    Bhorvath,

    Taking a sentence out of context to twist its meaning is the sign of a phony argument. Why don't you read the entire segment? Here it is nice and convenient

    "The African American kids were firmly on my side rooting me on the whole time. To them I was the underdog. I was their representative in that fight. To them my fight was their fight. I fought to a draw but I was not bothered by this kid any more. And though I never became close friends with the black kids in class we definitely had a new unspoken bond between us. I attended public school but the walls of this school were very broad."

    As far as peddling past Kenmore I have no idea what you are talking about. And, if focusing attention on Buffalo's architecture is elitist well then I am guilty. But you should also read the stories that I have written that are not about architecture.

  107. crisa

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    Nov 20th 2008, 09:41

    I would guess that all the great researchers of our time do not spend time at Web logs, therefore, we here is just us folks.

    About BRO: This is a VERY active site. That makes this site interesting and worth the often long wait for a comment to load. BRO is far-reaching in its own sphere.

    Searching for Internet info about the very different parts of "B" alone is also interesting--Buffalo proper itself is a big, diverse place! Tie in the suburbs and the diversity is incredible!

    Also interesting is how often BuffaloRising comes up in any searchs of the WNY area but especially Buffalo proper.

    Suggestion: Rename this 'Net spot Buffalo N-NW-W Rising Online.

    Soylent Green the movie? SG the people? SG the foodstuff? I learned some new things today!!! TY, allfit.

    About health care in the USA: What still isn't general public knowledge is the deeply rooted, powerful influence of private sector health care on ANY changes...

  108. NorPark

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    Nov 20th 2008, 10:57

    Soylent Green is made out of people

  109. crisa

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    Nov 20th 2008, 10:57

    Once in a while E. Buffalo IS featured here. The Sycamore Village new-builts were featured here today at 12:03 am--but after 8 comments the topic is closed.

    Question: Why is it that when comments are about the N., S., E. and W. sides of Buffalo, the N and S are referred to as "N. Buffalo" and "S. Buffalo" but comments about the E and W sides of this same City are always "eastside, E.side" and "westside, W.side" but the N and S are never referred to as "sides"?

    Buffalo, NY has two proper noun locations and two improper sideboarded, sidelined, side swiped references?

    Once upon a time Buffalo had a 5th side, the C. side, but no one ever distinguishes that concentric part of this City anymore thanks to council reshuffling.

  110. crisa

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    Nov 20th 2008, 11:40

    Ohmygod! Its like The Donner party!

  111. Assaroni

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    Nov 21st 2008, 02:18

    [Deleted ] off topic

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